Change Starts With Me

By Ganjiki D Wayne
 
“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself”~Leo Tolstoy
 
The theme of changing ourselves before demanding change in others is slowly gaining a footing in the mindsets of our people. Slowly we are starting to realise that in order for real change to happen in our land, “I must change”. From adamant cynics—who blame the system, the unstable social structures, the ineffective legislation, weak procedures, inadequate funding, bad planning, corrupt leadership, foreign dominance/influx, non-education, and a whole list of social evils, etc—to self-evaluating citizens, questioning their own contribution to society and who are now taking responsibility. A soft breeze of self-change is blowing through our country.
 
Increasingly we are now measuring our own worth and value to this nation. On which side of the ledger do we sit? We either add value to our nation, or we don’t...in our micro-economy and budget-setting, peer interaction, family-leadership, and our primary stewardship, etc. In EVERYTHING we do we either make our nation better off, or we keep it from getting better.
 
For one we need to seriously question our habitual littering of our streets. Good ol’ BSP tries vainly to clean up once a year. NASFUND too. Hours later and we’re back to square one. Bai yumi weit wanpla yiar gen lo narap’la klinup?! But should we wait for our kind corporate citizens or our government to clean up our streets? Perhaps we wouldn’t have to wait if we just DON’T LITTER like our communities were big dumps?! And don’t use lack of bins as an excuse—I’ve stood at bus-stops watching people who will not take a 5meter walk to the nearest bin to dispose their rubbish..or spit their buai!
 
We should also question why we love colouring our pavements with our endurable red spittle that puts Taubmans to shame. Should we be proud of ourselves for this simple atrocity when it makes us look bad and stupid; and brings the likes of Powes Parkop and his family literally onto their knees to scrub the Waigani junctions?? Spitting has always been, and still is, an ancient significant symbol of utter disgust and contempt.
 
And we spit on our country...every single day...
 
Surely we have a love for our land somewhere in us that should keep us from such a contemptuous deed! Surely we’re better than that!
 
I wonder if calculating the financial cost of our actions and inactions would help. If we know how the litter and spittle on our streets keep ten-thousand high-paying tourists away? If we knew how many were not only turned away and made no plans to return, but also did not extend a heartfelt recommendation to their wantoks to “go to PNG”—because PNG’s cities scared the daylights out of them, despite the fact that they loved our rural locations? If we knew how much money we don’t get and then waste cleaning up again? Would knowing such projections help us change? I doubt it. If we don’t change out of a genuine love for our land I doubt we’d change for the love of money.
 
How can we expect others to love and appreciate our land when we have an attitude that’s a far cry from patriotism? If we have no interest in helping ourselves yet demand the massive improvements? If, through our habitual lateness and procrastination (2 of my great sins I admit!), we aren’t very productive yet expect high productivity and growth! The only thing growing at top speed is our population!
 
This nation is not just the trees, the rivers, the rocks, or the roads and the buildings...it’s the people. You. Me. We are PNG. And if it must be greater, we must become better citizens. “Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek” said Obama. But I like how Michael Jackson put it in his song: “I’m starting with the man in the mirror, I’m asking him to change his ways....If you wanna make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and make the change!”
 
Let’s do the little things right. Perhaps they will add to great change. Stop littering. Stop spitting the buai indiscriminately. Stop being late to work and taking off early. Stop abusing your spouse and kids; love them. Cut the prejudice and extend love beyond your tribe, your province or your region. Make peace quickly. Respect yourself so you can respect others. Celebrate your countryman’s success; don’t haul them down. Have some pride in our country...it’s the only one of its kind. Defend her honour. Give more than you take. Go the extra mile for her.
 
Just....be a great citizen!
 
God knows this nation needs better citizens than what we’ve all been to her.
 
The best formula for this wind of change is of course articulated by my Lord: “Hypocrite! FIRST remove the plank from YOUR OWN eye, THEN you will SEE CLEARLY to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” JESUS....
 
Hard words. But can the world truly change any other way?
 
Let’s Change!
 
Ganjiki
Patriots PNG Inc